Do guys like quiet girls or do they like woman who stand in the center of the room and dress in red?

Actually I like them both but not very much. I like a woman who likes herself. The two you mentioned one extorts compliments and gets her self justification from others because she doesn't like herself enough, but depends on outside affirmation and the other doesn't like herself enough to go for her desires. Maybe in a year or two they will grow up.